Kelantan: tradition of engagement

Kelate's Culture of Engagement and Married

1. Spy
- The purpose of spy is a "sign" that the girl is a relationship. Parents often both sides just come.
- Some old man just came with cloth or rattan side ring and will discuss the engagement date.

2. Engaged
- Quite lively event was also attended by close relatives.
- Started with the poem .. fiancee will often come to the house of the girl with a pair of baju melayu impose Matching with the girls.
- Started with the poem and talk about the wedding date.
- After that the ceremony initiated by the mother sheathe finger ring to woman while her father sheathe finger ring to men.
- Fiancee trays usually start with 3, 5, 7 or 9 maximum tray and return the same habit. example: men take 5 trays and trays of woman replied 5

3. Dowry
- Our advantage is our Kelantan women pass but we had no dowry, dowry means this woman is an absolute ownership to be acquired during the marriage later.
- The trend now 9 thousand on Okeh accompanied by a number of trays agreed by partners.
- That's why our wedding costs more expensive because the cost of feasts, trays, thrones, photographer and goodies not include in Okeh dowry. for example: RM 10 K dowry and other marriage work cost is RM 10 K. so you've RM 20K, right?

4. Recognizing Ceremony
- One of the slots will be available during the later facet of where family members will go up to the dais and shook the military bride and give some money to the bride.
-intended to introduce members of their families while giving a little gift in the form of money. brides also have to provide special goodies to those who come to know this ye.
- Splatter and flour remain fresh
- May He used this money to pay debts honeymoon or wedding.

5. Visit
- The visit to his house to celebrate the presence of a new law in the family.
- Will be accompanied by a number of trays as gifts to men.
- Usually the man is not lively shopping at home as women but still depends on individual ability.